This is what people don’t seem to realise. We can’t just go out of our own way to look for a husband or a wife because the devil specialises in mismatching men and women. Wrongly matching couples to form toxic relationships, which causes a cycle of generational issues and degeneracy.
He does the complete opposite of what God does. As God brings the man and the woman together to form godly unions in Holy Matrimony, the devil brings the two together to create ungodly bonds.
Even some Christians are deceived. Presumption opposed to faith makes them believe it’s from God, when it’s really of the devil. Due to issues in their walk with God. They don’t depend nor have faith in Him completely. Where they still rely on their judgment without spiritual discernment by inspiration of the Holy Spirit in accordance to His word.
Some grow impatient with God. Thinking He is taking too long to bring them to their husband or wife, and act presumptuously.When God does not only need to further develop our characters, but while He is doing so, keeps us hidden to avoid the unnecessary heartbreaks. To keep us from going from relationship to relationship. And to keep us abstinent. To not create ungodly soul ties.
