Men and women it’s about “Character”

Posted on by asherdc89

Some women just don’t get it. A man who has his pick of the crop when it comes to women, or who has many women to choose from. Due to his financial success. Especially, if he has notoriety through his financial success. He’s most likely to be unfaithful. Knowing there are women who are only interested in him because of what he has.

And if women would quit being so shallow, and go for character instead of looks, money and material assets, they would be much more happier. Having love, and also their material needs satisfied.

Not to say by the way. A poor man without financial success and notoriety can’t cheat on a woman. The keyword here is character. We’re talking integrity, virtue and love. A poor or rich man could have it. It makes no difference. What a man has, doesn’t define who he is.

Women are not the only ones who just don’t get it. There are some men who are just as shallow as certain women too. Men who only go for women that are beautiful. Women that are aesthetically pleasing to the eyes over character. She could be beautiful, but could be using you. Either for self gain or emotional validation.

And just like how what a man has, doesn’t define who he is. A woman’s beauty doesn’t define who she is also. Are characters are made up of choices. Choices concerning what we say and do.

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Since 2010, I've experienced promptings, encouragement as well as assistance from the Holy Spirit. The promptings led me to the word of God. This was the start of my own personal journey as I sought after the truth. God was then calling me as I sought after the truth according to His word. The truth was leading me to the decision to give my life to Him. I gave my life to God on the 28th of January 2012. Instantly, I had the desire to share with others the truth of God, that God is a God of love, truth, righteousness, holiness, mercy and justice. I couldn't keep something like this to myself in a lost and dying world, a world in a fallen state, and a world steeped in confusion concerning the view of who God is. My journey wasn't without struggle though, I realised through suffering we come to know God. To not only be humble, but to be empathic and not detached from people who are suffering. Sometime in 2012, God inspired me to become a writer just after my prayer to fulfill my purpose, the purpose of the reason of my existence. My prayer was a reflection of Isaiah 43:1-7. So I started writing essays pertaining to His word. I shared what I wrote with my family and friends. Therefore, the aspiration to help people globally, came with the realisation to give God the honour and the glory. To be part of making a difference. The inspiration to start blogging was impressed upon me to do. Through prayerful guidence, I believe God has led me to this point, which I believe is for His glory.