Trust is something earned

Posted on by asherdc89

Don’t you know we have to earn each other’s trust?

Especially, when the person has been abused and downtrodden by others.

It will take a lot of selfless love, and tender love and care to help most people. This of course takes time and patience.

People who have been through a lifetime of pain, misery and suffering are scared of being hurt again.

And are constantly questioning if someone new will do the same.

It is not easy for them to open up to people. People who they haven’t spent enough time with to get to know. 

In order for them to let you in as a person, you have to earn their trust, which isn’t easy. If you’re truly worthy of them. You have to be who you say you are. Due to the fact that a lot of people pretend to be something that they are not; because they are selfishly motivated. 

People who have had their hearts broken also have a responsibility to learn how to trust again. To appreciate and value the good that you do, by knowing your true intentions.

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Published by asherdc89

Since 2010, I've experienced promptings, encouragement as well as assistance from the Holy Spirit. The promptings led me to the word of God. This was the start of my own personal journey as I sought after the truth. God was then calling me as I sought after the truth according to His word. The truth was leading me to the decision to give my life to Him. I gave my life to God on the 28th of January 2012. Instantly, I had the desire to share with others the truth of God, that God is a God of love, truth, righteousness, holiness, mercy and justice. I couldn't keep something like this to myself in a lost and dying world, a world in a fallen state, and a world steeped in confusion concerning the view of who God is. My journey wasn't without struggle though, I realised through suffering we come to know God. To not only be humble, but to be empathic and not detached from people who are suffering. Sometime in 2012, God inspired me to become a writer just after my prayer to fulfill my purpose, the purpose of the reason of my existence. My prayer was a reflection of Isaiah 43:1-7. So I started writing essays pertaining to His word. I shared what I wrote with my family and friends. Therefore, the aspiration to help people globally, came with the realisation to give God the honour and the glory. To be part of making a difference. The inspiration to start blogging was impressed upon me to do. Through prayerful guidence, I believe God has led me to this point, which I believe is for His glory.